Self-Censor Exit Strategy


Something unusual happened while out walking this morning.

I thought it would be a good thing to write about for my (very poorly maintained) Tiny Triumphs Substack.

The process of writing it felt appealing and a little cathartic.

Immediately, my mind gremlins pleaded with me not to waste my precious time and energy because nobody would want to read it.

Ahhhh, my old friend, the Self-Censorship Cycle.

Here are two questions I ask myself to get past it, which might be helpful if you cut off your creativity in the same way.

  1. Will I enjoy the process of creating it? If yes, create it anyway, then move to question 2.
  2. Can I trust other people to decide for themselves whether they want to read/watch/listen to the thing I have created? If yes, hit publish and allow the adults who will see it to make their own grown-up decisions about how much, or how little, to consume.

Helpful?

P.S. I wrote the thing - it's not graphic, but it's not a 'he lived happily ever after' either - Gave Tex A Better Ending.

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