Chose This Instead


I almost had a new blog post to share with you today, Reader

I set aside Monday mornings for content creation, and yesterday I drafted two blog posts.

With about 90 minutes left until my first 1-1 of the day, I chose one to focus on so I could get it over the finish line and send it to you today.

And then an unscheduled phone call came in related to the ongoing saga of securing an educational placement for Son#2.

Since dealing with that is #1 on my priority list right now (and has been for the last 3 months), I abandoned the blog post and took the call.

When the call ended, I still had an hour to spare until my first client - plenty of time to edit and publish the post.

But I had already promised myself fresh air and exercise because a dose of that each day keeps me stable, and I was far too discombobulated to switch my focus back to writing.

So I closed my laptop, put on my joggers, sweatshirt, and weighted vest, and marched around the neighbourhood for 20 minutes to the pace of my eclectic ‘workout’ playlist.

Then I showered, and lay on my Shakti mat for 10 minutes listening to a podcast (painful bliss).

And then I was ready for my first client of the day.

I could’ve used that time to meet my self-imposed commitment of one blog post per week.

I could shit-talk myself for not doing what I set out to do, and getting that blog post written.

But I’m not going to, because I chose higher priorities - my son, my well-being, and being mentally prepared for my client. (Shout out to Joanna Hennon who I've worked with for years, and whose voice I hear asking me 'what are you choosing for' to remind me every choice is an opportunity to vote in favour of the things I want).

And this email isn’t to explain why there’s no new blog post.

It’s to ask you one question:

Are you shit-talking yourself over not doing (or delaying) something, when the reality is you chose to invest your time, energy and/or headspace differently?

P.S. I didn’t write the blog post today, because I’m experimenting with taking Tuesdays off work to dedicate to domestic duties…. and so far loving it. I’ll explain more in a future blog post about how I’m healing my chronic time-related anxiety.

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