Gold digging nightmares


Sometimes my job involves pissing my clients off, Reader

The conversation (via Zoom, Voxer, or text) goes like this....

Client: I need to build my email list, but I don't want to run Facebook Ads

Or

Client: I want to get more people into my membership, but my last doors open/closed launch cycle flopped, and I don't want to do it again

Or

Client: I know I need to be marketing my business, but I hate creating content for social media.

Or some other variation of: I need this outcome, but I really do not enjoy doing this Thing that I believe will get me there.

Do I soothe them, provide reassurance that we're not going to go there, and focus my attention on an alternative?

Absolutely not.

I spot that big shiny 'Do Not Press' button, and press it firmly and immediately by asking 'If we did do that horrible Thing you don't want to do, tell me more about that - what would happen, why is it so horrible, what would the pay-off be?'

There is gold hidden in that nightmare scenario, and I'm going to help them dig it out, and to do that, we have to be immersed in the nightmare.

Got your own nightmare marketing scenario you're prepared to explore?

  1. What's your current top-of-mind version of 'I need this outcome, but I don't enjoy doing this Thing that I believe will get me there'?
  2. Why don't you enjoy the Thing? What's so awful about it? Really go for it, and get out all your animoisty about this Thing.
  3. What do you believe doing this Thing, that you really don't want to do, will achieve for you/your business?
  4. Are there any tweaks, changes, or adaptations you can make to the Thing you don't want to do, that would make it more appealing, manageable, or comfortable for you?
  5. What are the alternatives to this Thing, that could bring you the same outcome?

To be clear, I won't tell you to just do the hard thing because that's not helpful and doesn't work for a whole bunch of reasons that would make this email too long.

But I do believe in being brave enough to look right at the thing we don't want to do, get curious about it, and discover whatever it's trying to show us.

Want to know what my version of 'I need this outcome, but I don't enjoy doing this Thing' was recently - and what I did about it? Reply and ask me. If I add it here, this email would be huge.

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